Saying Yes Before Saying No

I used to have a pretty rock solid limiting belief that I really didn’t know what I’m doing even if everyone believed I did. When I was a senior in high school I was first chair flute in the band. I always said that the only reason I was first chair was because everyone higher than me graduated the year before. Years ago, while traveling with my sisters, I pointed us in the wrong direction and we got very lost for quite a while. I I tried to sound confident that I knew how to get home but that just made things even worse. So began the Bitchy Sister Roadtrips. Just recently I was offered the opportunity at work to take the lead in planning a very large conference with a $3 million budget. Six months ago that was not on my radar nor in my wheelhouse of skills. Or at least I thought.

2015-02-08 12.27.53 Recently I have been offered several opportunities to expand my horizons, to reach beyond what I thought I could do. From workshops to virtual classes, in all of those opportunities I said yes before I could say no. Why? Because if I say no, the opportunities will stop coming to me. Am I nervous? Yes. Scared? A little. But most of all I am excited to dive in and expand.

What has brought around this change in my thinking? Discovering and embracing my true voice. When I realized that I was speaking with someone else voice I discovered just how much I was holding myself back. By getting in tune with my desires, by acknowledging my feelings, and by embracing vulnerability I have opened myself to receive far more than I thought possible.

What core limiting belief is holding you back? Where are you resisting expressing yourself completely? Join me and Jaclyn Wallach for our free virtual class Explore Your True Voice this Monday, February 9 at 5:00pm PST. Together we will discover ways to uncover and unlock our true voices.

Can’t make the call? No problem. Sign up and we’ll send you the recording!

Want to dive even deeper? Join us on Saturday, February 21 for our all day in-person workshop Honor Your Expression. It will truly rock your world and open you up to even greater opportunities in your life. Early bird pricing in affect until February 12. Space is limited.

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